It is not easy to look at the bad things that are happening or have happened in our lives as experiences. Some of us can say that we are grateful for those tough moments because they taught us something or helped us to grow, and others would rather shut their eyes and thoughts to the memories of those difficult times.
But the truth is that you really should not regret them, because despite how much you cried and fought and struggled, I am sure that when you overcame that problem, you came out of it a much stronger person. You were refined. And sometimes that is the only reason our problems are there, to strengthen and refine us.
No matter what you are going through, you will overcome it. You can do it!
All my love.